Hi steve,
the boxer engine is very torquey, and has significant engine braking, almost as much as using the rear brake,
the throttle position is critical for matching engine and road speed when changing gears,
your downshifts on bikes with slipper clutch, back torque limiter prevent the engine stopping the rear wheel,
this is likely to occur shifting down on a closed throttle which especially on wet roads is not ideal, slipper clutch or not, on any bike,
simply blipping the throttle and not closing it fully on down shifts is often all it needs,
the gearbox can be pretty smooth with more precise throttle control, this is something many of us having ridden older motorcycles many years ago have learned,
your comparison and findings are valid, and in no way make you an idiot,
the R9t is an involving ride and is analogue, my 2018 classic has no traction control which i prefer,
the roll on off benefit especially in twisty sweeping combination bends can be rewarding when using the engine by carefully and precisely feeding in and easing off the power very slightly even at pretty steep lean angles without de stabilising the bike with the brakes ,
All in even the newer models are still pretty back to basics old school riding in an immersive way,
the choice is go for the involvement and the fun most of us get from what it is, and the journey to achieve that,
or stay with something more forgiving that delivers what you prefer, we all like different things,
i have had many bikes including sport bikes , and still thrive on the pleasure an r 9 t can deliver when you work with it, much to the surprise of some of my riding buddies,
Safe travels,,
Forest,